**This comes from a questioner who recently opened his channel and called in a high level guide through the Open to Channel course by Sanaya Roman and Duane Packer.**<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Meashenu – Hey Nicole & Talabeus. I have had a really big resistance for a long time when I see guides use the term “dear one & dear ones” I will never use these terms myself & was hoping Ramalia wouldn’t either, but she is using them in our telepathic conversations so far quite a bit calling me dear, dear one. My question: Why do high level guides use the term Dear One & Dear Ones? I asked her to not use it, but she is saying she is going to keep using it, because that way I will know that it is not me and the info is coming from her since I refuse to use those words myself lol. But I also asked her the same question and want to see if my answer is similar to what you get.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
“Dearest Meashenu, how would you feel about us if we just said “hey”? We are in a position of authority over lower level (and by lower we do not mean lesser) guides in that we have a role to fulfill. One of those is to have proper etiquette when conversing with our channels and the public. If we do not show that we are of a high caliber no one will listen. This catches people’s attention as “not usual” of a guide. That is on one hand. The other is that we reside in a place of love, and we want people to know beyond a shadow of a doubt that they are <\/em>loved, at all times, by all of us. People have a resistance to terms of endearment, but that is a human thing usually displayed by people who don’t feel that they are and so the defense mechanism to perceived in-genuineness goes up. We use it to crash that down until one does feel truly loved because crashing down it will come. You will see. Dearest Meashenu, it is our honor to work with you, please do not give up. <\/p>\n\n\n\n With much love, Talabeus.”<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" **This comes from a questioner who recently opened his channel and called in a high level guide through the Open to Channel course by Sanaya … <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":246,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[19],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-79","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-q-and-a-the-use-of-dear-ones","has-meta"],"post_mailing_queue_ids":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/higherrealms.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/79","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/higherrealms.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/higherrealms.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/higherrealms.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/higherrealms.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=79"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"http:\/\/higherrealms.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/79\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":83,"href":"http:\/\/higherrealms.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/79\/revisions\/83"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/higherrealms.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/246"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/higherrealms.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=79"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/higherrealms.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=79"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/higherrealms.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=79"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}